4 Tips To Help Get You Out Of A Stuck Life

Hello, welcome to another new day. Last week, we talked about the power of a positive mindset during times of hardship. Today we’ll talk about how to get you out of a stuck situation. Want to move up the ladder of your life? You should do these things I learnt again over the weekend.

Before we go ahead, many people are stuck in a job or relationship they don’t like. The only thing keeping them is that next paycheck. So, they live from one paycheck to the other. However, some people remain in an unhealthy relationship because of some presumed benefits they think they get.

Well, here are a few tips to get you out of the rut.

1. Remember your dreams

Many people once had a dream at one point or the other, but along the way, they lost it. A dream acts as divine guidance for you to help you reach your goal in life. A dream gives you a pointer to the direction you are to go.

Your dream is what keeps your hope alive. A man without a dream is dead. What distinguishes high achievers from others is the fact that they are stuck to their dream. Many give up along the way. it is your dream that will keep you going.

Have you learnt to relax from that sorry situation and think deep. Dreams come when we sleep right? You might not need to sleep. You just need to relax and think deep. Calm your mind and look away from your anxiety. A ruffled mind doesn’t see clearly. When you see clearly your vision becomes clear.

2. Your vision must be clear

If dreams act as a guide, vision is the picture of where you are going. A clear vision is the clear imaginary location of your desires and goals.

Your vision is essential for your growth. Also, vision gives you clarity of purpose. When your mind is calm and clear, your vision is clear and you will see what your future is like.

You cannot go where your mind does not take you. Your mind works in a mysterious way. The body and the mind work in harmony. Where the mind goes, the body goes. So, the more clear your vision is, the better you move.

For you to move, let your vision be clear and certain. Let it be real. Feel it, taste it, smell it, just do what makes it real for you. This is the level of imagination that drives you to accomplish your goals.

Remember to always see your vision like a map. It will tell you your location, which way to go, and also, where you are going. When you are stuck, just remember your vision.

3. Get Direction

You need someone to instruct you what next to do. Therefore, knowledge is important when you need to move. Hosea 4:6 says “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge…”. Seek help.

Information is key for your next move. If you are not informed, you are deformed. And if you are deformed you will be stuck.

A person without information is like a loose cannon, it will just go anywhere. Information is powerful. You need to be aware of what is new. There are new tools, a new way of doing things, and there are innovations that can help you perform better in you move to a higher level in your profession. Seek knowledge. Read books. Get mentorship.

4. Get to meet people.

In life, you must do things, and you cannot do the job alone. You need a person’s help. So, there is someone out there who can help you. But you must get to meet them.

There is someone with the information that will take you to the next level of your life. So, you need to be sensitive to the kind of people you meet. Do not look down on people.

Be ready with your sales pitch at all times. In fact, every time you meet people is an opportunity to sell yourself. Your network is your net worth. I have said that again and again in this blog if you have been following.

You need to make new contacts. Whenever you go out is an opportunity to interact with people. This could even on social media. Let people be aware of your business or service you render after five minutes of interaction with you.

Let your bio speak for you. For those who have social media handles, let your profile speak for you. so, when people land on your page, it speaks for you.

Have your business card handy. If you don’t have a business card, let your introduction capture what you do.

If you have a challenge that needs a solution, do not hesitate to ask for help from people you meet around. You can just simply ask, “do you know anybody who can help me with so and so?”

Take Action

Someone knows someone, who knows someone, who knows someone.  But be careful. The fact that I said you should meet people who can help you, doesn’t mean you should act like a beggar. You must be ready to return value for value where you can.

Keep your dreams and vision clear. Get knowledge. Get understanding. Depression is only a sign that you stopped doing things. Keep going, no matter how slow you move.

If you can do these things above, it will help you break out from a stuck situation and help your move up. Enjoy your week.

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Author: M.K. Ibiyeye

Kenny is the creator of the Paid Professional's Blog and he is a Lawyer and Talent Manager.

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